Top 'Sins' committed by Men

I jus finish watchin the variety show on Channel U - Women On Top, host by Quan Yi Feng. Today's topic reali reali caught my attn n i was rite in front o my tv set, tunin in to the heated discussion. 6 courageous ladies in front o those cameras, puttin up issues n points tt can b super annoyin n sickenin wen men got reali dumb. Things like : wen men were full o themselves, stingy, bein a chauvinist, violent, liar, gambler, stubborn & etc......... I guess each o us face all these shits in our everyday lives. *shrugs*

Frankly, it got me ponderin on things tt i reali hate abt men - in general. I hate it wen men start to give excuses w/out another excuse to cover up the previous one. I hate it wen men dun empathise wit us knowin tt we suffered some grievances in some situations. I hate it wen men lie wen dey r aware tt dey r doin things to hurt us. I hate it wen men cheat behind our back wit another woman. I hate it wen a man is irresponsible on his actions. I hate it wen a man gamble & spend away all his money. I hate wen a man ...blah blah blah.. n the list goes on ... It's part n passle o lives tt we haf got to face & if we cant justify our actions, it can b difficult for us to do thing rationally.

In e show, the guests were relatin their experiences wit men tt dey find it detestable n it got me reminded o him. I rmb how he find excuses wen he cant mit me last min wen he was e one who asked me out. I rmb how he neglected me wen he had promised alot o things to me. I rmb e things tt he said tt got me very upset. And e list goes on too .........

Now i m thankful tt i m single all over agn wit nt much problems due to all these hiccups. At times wen i came to know tt so-n-so got problems wit her husband or so-n-so got problems wit his wife, dere's only one thing i will tell myself - if it ever happens to me, i wil crash e r/s n move on but it's selfish for all i know. I realised tt i do not wish to land myself in such situation tt i cant face or rather i dun wish to handle. He had taught me to b easy on things tt happen btw me n partner but let me tell u tis nw, if things gona b easy, dere wnt b love.

One o e men tt i know (mayb u can identify urself or mayb u r readin it now), he has been tellin me how much he loves me, how much he wants to b wit me & how much i mean to him. Mind u, SAYIN IS NOT BELIEVIN vs SEEIN IS BELIEVIN. ACTIONS DEFINITELY SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS. I m not askin u to do anythin but if u r sayin all these to another woman simultaneously, pls mean it n do it. It's reali meaningless o u to kip tellin me all these rubbish on e phone wen u dun mean it at all. Perhaps u find it cool & entertainin or i appear to b naive but i do find it redundant. The only thing i ask for now, either u leave me alone wen u know how true u r towards me or mean e things tt u had said.

To all e men out dere : Respect women for wad dey r n live life like a
man, nt a coward.