My blog is bcomin an online diary for me.. I seems to have use here as a channel to show my agression, happiness & grievances... Okay, back to topic, my 2nd post for e day.
I reach back hme at 7pm, as expected. Had my dinner first as i was very hungry. Den sat on my sofa to watch some tv shows & aft awhile, Auntie Ang came n joined me. We were tokin away, discussin abt some stupid tv shows & e conversation flow was fine. Outta nowhere, Uncle Chong shouted tt he's hungry n asked if Auntie Ang wana take her dinner as well & so dey proceeded for their meal at e dining table. I continue to rot on my sofa, watchin HBO channel.
Auntie Ang finished her dinner & she came back to e sofa area. Bro called back. He asked if we wana eat bak gua. At tis pt, my heart was thinkin tt as long as Auntie Ang do not nid to fork out a single cent to buy anythin, she would love to have everythin. NB. Nvm. Suddenly she tok abt Bro's gf. Interestin topic, as always !
Auntie Ang complaint abt the following issues :
1) JJ always make Bro come back hme late.
2) Bro always come back hme late cos o JJ & therefore he do nt haf enuff slp.
3) JJ refuses to come over to our hse aft Auntie Ang commented on smthin crudely.
4) Due to those crude remarks, JJ abit buay song (i guess so la !!)
5) JJ buay song, Bro will somehow F Auntie Ang.
6) Auntie Ang felt heart pain to see Bro like a slave to JJ.
7) Auntie Ang felt tt her son bein snatch away by another woman (tis is common la !! NB.)
8) Auntie Ang nt happy cos Bro dun fetch her ard in his car.
9) Auntie Ang scare r/s btw herself n Bro may get sour.
Okay, first thing first. If i m JJ & i heard those crude remarks, i wnt b happy oso BUT on e otherhand, she shld understand tt Auntie Ang may b her future mum-in-law & my Bro IS NOT her hubby yet. Secondly, Bro always come hme late does not mean it's JJ's fault as Bro mite b e one volunteerily offered to fetch her ard?? But fr wad i see abt tis, i tink if Bro dun fetch JJ ard, she will throw tantrum !! hahahahaha. Typical Da Xiao Jie temper wor... kekekeke.. So, havin enuff slp or not, Bro shld b e one controllin it & therefore Auntie Ang shld jus leave it to Bro to handle it. Thirdly, Auntie Ang always very subjective. Everythin oso go by her mood. She happy, she joke, she not happy, den god bless u wit long life. NB. Another mood swing bitch la. So yea, if i m JJ, i wnt give a damn BUT if it will drag my future hubby into trouble btw e mum n son, i will choose to take things easy. Fourth, y shld Bro always fetch Auntie Ang ard ???? Seriously, i m tryin to b objective here BUT at times Auntie Ang VERY VERY unreasonable. NB. She expect pple to fetch her as n wen she wan it to wen SHE DO NOT UNDERSTAND tt pple mite b rushin for some other thing. She's fckin demandin wen she dun understand tt everybody ard her r beginnin nt able to tolerate her shits anymore. Trust me, in future wen i drive, i will nt fetch her ard as i aint her driver. It's like she got legs, y cant she travel ard on her own ????????? I wrk far fr my hse & i can still take public transport w/out askin anyone to fetch me hme !! NB lo. Duno wad's her prob. At times, i do hope tt dere will b some joker out dere to teach her a gud lesson. Okay, sorry, i know outta topic. hahahaha.
Afterall, wen a man is ready to start his own family n is bz buildin up his career, he tend to forget certain impt aspects in his life & tis is smthin tt Auntie Ang shld b more perspective abt. She cant expect tt Bro or myself to stick by her side 24/7. Reports had shown tt youngsters nowadays nid have their own programmes wit fren or external family (e other half o urs). It bcome part o their lives tt dey wana see more things tt their parents had nt ever show them. This is e time wer parents shld learn to free their children for them to explore more & to expose wit better exposure. Sadly, alot o e older generation jus wana stick to their own dead tinkin. I m jus wonderin wen will Auntie Ang ever wake up her idea. zzzzz.
Wadeva had happened OR wadeva gona happen btw JJ & Auntie Ang, I can only kip them in prayers. It's a difficult battle to fight. At times i agree wit Auntie Ang tt JJ seems to b makin gud use o Bro & on e otherhand, I do tink tt Auntie Ang jus wana make a big fuss outta everythin. It all boils down to e fact tt my Bro is bein loved by 2 women & these 2 women do not wana let go o Bro. hahahahaha. Thank god tt Uncle Chong is somewhat havin a balanced mind. I cant imagine tt in times to come wen i tink i wana find a guy & Uncle Chong is reactin e same way as Auntie Ang, i mite tell them tt i wana stay celibate !!! hahahahahahha. Celibacy is not a sin !! hahaha.
Tinkin o how 2 women could fight jus bcos o a man, i tink it's nonsensical n yet much filled wit loves. Y cant women jus wise up & put themselves into others' shoes ?? I read some article abt women - Women r more prone to emotional attacks n therefore many times, dey would react in a very negative manners. zzzzz. I admit i m one too! hahahaha. Perhaps i couldnt (n Nv Would) understand e tension in facin such situation cos I had nv intend to settle wit any guy at all but seriously, does it occur to u tt wen we weigh too much on e consequences, we forget abt e previous established rapport among us ?? Which means, as things got developed further to another phase, we neglected e small lil' details tt led to e outcome ?? It's like pple always say tt it's easier to see each other every other day than to stay under one roof. And theorically, it is rite BUT ironically, it may not seems so rite. haha !! Complex isnt it ? To me is, one has got to LEARN to accept wad others are all abt b4 we can stay in harmonious surroundin & e prob nw is, human r too self-obssessed. zzzzzzz. I m facin one in my wrk plc nw. God Bless.
I cant find any best theory, best remedy or best solution 2 it. Back to basic, win ur enemy over. Wen we can win ourselves or win others, we can win many situations. God Bless & much Loves.
Sorry for e long long craps here. =)
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